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六合彩投注网 students bring companionship and events to residents in memory care at Fargo鈥檚 Touchmark retirement community.
Story by Sarah Coomber | Illustrations by Leah Ecklund | August 23, 2024
鈥淚鈥檓 angry,鈥 said the woman, eyes darting side to side beneath a furrowed brow and neatly styled gray hair.听
She sat, shoulders hunched, on a padded bench in a hallway decorated with cheerful paintings. Lowering her voice, she continued to mutter.听
I had just entered Devonshire, the highest-level memory care neighborhood in Touchmark at Harwood Groves, a south Fargo retirement community.听
Walking with me was Anna Strand 鈥27, moving with the confidence of an athlete, her face like sunshine. She stopped in front of the bench.

鈥淗i,鈥 she said, addressing the woman by name. 鈥淲e鈥檙e going to make bouquets. Do you want to join us?鈥听
The older woman鈥檚 voice quieted. She looked up at Anna. 鈥淣o. I鈥檓 angry,鈥 she said and turned her gaze back to the floor.听
鈥淪he often says this,鈥 Anna explained softly, after we moved on. 鈥淏ut she鈥檒l join us later.鈥听
Anna鈥檚 assessment of the woman made perfect sense to me. I had watched my own mother struggle with dementia at the end of her life, moods swinging and behavior shifting. When her challenges became too great for my father to handle at home, they moved into Touchmark, where staff helped care for my mom as she drifted away.听
Touchmark鈥檚 memory care environment is now the site of a pilot project for 六合彩投注网 students and researchers. During the spring 2024 semester, Anna was among seven interns who visited on the weekends and led events for its 20 residents.听听


A morning in memory care
On a Saturday in April, four of the interns met up in Devonshire鈥檚 Cozy Corner room: Anna, a nutrition science major, and Addisyn Douty 鈥25, Taylor Gohdes 鈥25, and Tyler Hoang 鈥25, all exercise science majors. They set white vases and grocery store flowers on a long table and invited the residents to join them in making bouquets.听
Soon the table was ringed by residents sitting in chairs. Doris Day sang 鈥淨ue Sera, Sera鈥 from an oldies playlist that wafted from the students鈥 portable speaker. For the next hour or so, residents came and went, some sitting down, choosing their own flowers to put in vases, others watching the students select and arrange flowers for them. One woman sank into a chair to watch and, after a few minutes, nodded off.听
When 鈥淎t the Hop鈥 began to play, a woman wearing a blue fleece sweatshirt lit up. Sitting at the table, she began to snap her fingers, shimmy her shoulders, and bounce her feet to the 1958 hit.听听
鈥淚 love to dance!鈥 she smiled.听
鈥淏rings back the memories, doesn鈥檛 it?鈥 twinkled another woman, her hair short and white.听
After a while, the angry woman we met earlier entered the room. Her eyes had changed from stormy to curious, and there was a hint of a spring in her step. Some at the table turned their heads to see who was coming, and her mood swung to irritated.听
鈥淲hy are you looking over here?鈥 she asked. 鈥淚t鈥檚 like you鈥檙e expecting something straaaaange to happen.鈥听
They turned back to their flowers.听
Watching this woman navigate the morning鈥檚 happenings, I felt a sense of recognition.

I had observed my own mother swimming in similar emotional currents. Her confusion with everyday tasks often resulted in frustration. She would scowl and make herself immovable. Sometimes she would tell my dad she was leaving to go back to her hometown, far away, where she insisted she would rejoin family and friends, some of whom were no longer alive.听
Dementia is caused by changes in the brain that lead to problems with memory, language, problem-solving, and other skills needed for everyday life. Alzheimer鈥檚 disease is the most common cause, accounting for 60% to 80% of all dementia cases. Others include vascular dementia, frontotemporal dementia, and Lewy body dementia.听
According to the Alzheimer鈥檚 Association, in North Dakota alone approximately 14,000 people ages 65 and older are living with Alzheimer鈥檚. Nationwide, there are nearly 7 million. By 2050, that number is predicted to rise to nearly 13 million, unless a cure or preventive measures are found.听
Will anyone be left untouched?听听
They might not always remember the conversation we had the day before, but I think they get excited when we come, because they remember the way we make them feel.
Anna Strand ’27
A confluence of generations

The student internships and related research projects at Touchmark are funded by an endowment named 鈥淚mproving the Quality of Life for Persons with Dementia and Alzheimer鈥檚 Disease.鈥 It was created by Terry Scherling 鈥77, 鈥08 and her father, the late Darrol Schroeder 鈥52, 鈥08, in honor of Donna Jean (aka Jean or DJ) Schroeder 鈥49, Terry鈥檚 mother and Darrol鈥檚 wife.听
Jean had been an economics major at 六合彩投注网 and later became CEO of Carlson Travel Agency. She was an active community leader in Davenport, North Dakota, where she started an enrichment program for kindergartners, founded a theater group, and organized parades. Asked to coach a sport she鈥檇 never played, she led a softball team to a state championship.听
鈥淪he was this energetic inspiration throughout our lives,鈥 Terry said.听
Jean remained active until the very end of her life, but when she faced dementia, she moved into Touchmark for memory care.听
Terry and Darrol noticed that Touchmark鈥檚 events calendar was full, but on weekends the offerings were fewer and not as many staff were available to accompany memory care residents.听
As Darrol visited Jean every day, he and Terry wondered about her neighbors whose families lived far away. They started imagining ways that 六合彩投注网 students might help them stay engaged: Wouldn鈥檛 it be wonderful if students would practice their musical instruments in the hallway? And wouldn鈥檛 it be fun for physical education students to come and play a little soccer with a balloon?听
Another thing Terry noticed was that after her mom entered memory care, she gained weight. She would stand in front of her mirror, looking at her stomach with consternation. Terry learned that dementia causes some people to lose touch with hunger sensations 鈥 they can鈥檛 tell when they need to eat or can鈥檛 tell when to stop.听
Wanting to improve life for those living with dementia, Terry and Darrol brought their ideas to the 六合彩投注网 Foundation and set up the endowment with a focus on nutrition and weekend enrichment activities.听
The funding is making it possible for 六合彩投注网 Health, Nutrition, and Exercise Sciences faculty Sherri Stastny 鈥88, 鈥89, 鈥07 and Ryan McGrath to hire student interns and set up research projects focused on nutrition and events. Sherri is a licensed registered dietitian and board-certified specialist in sports dietetics. Before joining the 六合彩投注网 faculty in 2002, she worked as director of food and nutrition services in several health care systems. Ryan is the director of Healthy Aging North Dakota and is also on the faculty of the University of North Dakota鈥檚 department of geriatrics.


鈥淚鈥檓 grateful that I have an opportunity to see some results during my lifetime,鈥 said Terry, who retired as a major general in the U.S. Air Force, senior leader in the Department of Homeland Security, and founder and CEO of a national security consulting firm. 鈥淚 hope that my parents would be pleased and proud of the impact that their gift has had on individuals with Alzheimer鈥檚 and the University that they love so much.鈥听
Last fall, Sherri鈥檚 nutrition and dietetics students identified snacks as a place where changes might help residents keep their weights more stable. Four of her seniors spent three days meeting with Touchmark鈥檚 residents, nursing staff, and executive chef and exploring the memory care snack menu to make healthy changes.听
鈥淲e all like our treats,鈥 Sherri said, 鈥渂ut we tried to switch it up with nutrient-dense snacks.鈥 Instead of a frosted sugar cookie, how about an oatmeal raisin cookie? They explored nut mixes, trail mixes, veggies and dips, and dried and fresh fruits.听
To address the need for more things to do on weekends, Sherri and Ryan offered paid internships and training to students in the College of Health and Human Sciences using funds from the endowment.听
Throughout spring semester, the interns took turns organizing events in the memory care area for weekend enrichment. Ahead of each visit, they ran them by Touchmark staff and their professors.听听
Some of the events included creating and enjoying healthy snacks, like making protein balls and smoothies. Others encouraged movement and social connection: songs and games, dancing, walking excursions, dyeing Easter eggs, planting gardens, creating pancake batter art, and bringing in musicians 鈥 including Taylor鈥檚 grandmother, who played hymns on the piano.听
Anna described a pillow project, where participants tied together two fringed pieces of fabric. Although the task was too complicated for some, it still felt like a success.听
鈥淚t was so cool seeing everyone here,鈥 she said, 鈥渉earing people laughing and talking, some going on walks, some making pillows.鈥听
It wasn鈥檛 about the craft 鈥 it was about being together.听听







Engaging with the gray tsunami
As students and residents connected weekly, Sherri and Ryan evaluated how their interactions affected both groups.听
Based on questionnaires filled out by Touchmark staff, the researchers saw noticeable improvements in the older adults鈥 levels of social engagement, anxiety mitigation, emotional well-being, and overall quality of life after weekends when the student interns were on site.听
鈥淒o we find this program to be beneficial? Well, 10 out of 10 every single time,鈥 Stephanie Doppler, clinical care manager at Touchmark, said. 鈥淲henever there鈥檚 an activity, the anxiety goes down, because they鈥檙e not necessarily looking for their family or thinking they have to go somewhere or worried about what鈥檚 going on. They鈥檙e involved and engaged.鈥

Plus, she says, knowing an event is coming up gives residents something to look forward to. Afterward, they tend to be calmer and rest better in the evening. That鈥檚 good for the seniors as well as their caregivers.听
鈥淚t鈥檚 rejuvenating for team members to have new people bring in new ideas,鈥 Touchmark executive director Anne-Marie Fitz 鈥08 said.听
In another area of research, Sherri and Ryan are studying how these experiences affect the student interns. They had the students fill out surveys at the beginning, middle, and end of the semester.听
Preliminary data indicate the interns gained confidence in overall dementia care, professionalism, relationship building, working with the memory care group, and facing unexpected challenges. Ryan said the interns brought a 鈥渢railblazing attitude and willingness to try new things.鈥听
They also got exposure to career paths in the field of elder care.听
As the U.S. population ages, the gray tsunami is coming. According to the Alzheimer鈥檚 Association, the U.S. will need to nearly triple its number of geriatricians by 2050 to keep up with demand.听
鈥淣o matter what we do, there鈥檚 more and more need,鈥 Sherri said. 鈥淎nd if we can instill passion about helping older adults as a career, I鈥檓 all about that.鈥澨听






Ripple effects
Having journeyed with my own mother through dementia, I was fascinated to watch the students navigating those unpredictable waters, meeting each resident where he or she was at on that particular day.听
Their young hands, many with nails painted in optimistic pinks, assisted wrinkled fingers building fresh bouquets and painting cheery birdhouses as they chatted around the table.听
The woman who started out angry in the hallway later sat down at the table and joined the activity, just as Anna predicted. She chose flowers and added them to her vase. Later, looking relaxed, even smiling, she painted a birdhouse.听
Clearly the impacts of these weekend visits go far beyond keeping residents active.
鈥淚t鈥檚 really important, the way you make them feel,鈥 Anna observed. 鈥淭hey might not always remember the conversation we had the day before, but I think they get excited when we come, because they remember the way we make them feel.鈥听
Nearby, Addisyn helped the woman with short, white hair paint a birdhouse pink and blue. The woman asked what year she was in school.听
鈥淎 junior,鈥 Addisyn answered.听
The woman patted her on the arm.听
鈥淚鈥檓 glad you鈥檙e here,鈥 she said.听



Sarah Coomber is a Moorhead-based writing consultant who dives deep to bring her subjects to life. She currently publishes a weekly e-newsletter about life in the sandwich generation at听听and is the author of听听(Camphor Press, 2020),听a memoir about how running away to Japan helped her find her way home.
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